My commute was anywhere from 45 minutes to 1 hr 30 mins. Its a trade-off. When my lease ended, I moved to Cathedral Heights, and Ive really loved the neighborhoodI have 25-minute walking commute, and its lovely. For example, I live on the Westside. I have a good job at a good organization that Im not willing to leave, and trying to find work in a different state is a difficult endeavor. Hi, OP! Thank you so much for posting my question, Alison. even with having many more public transport options. Its worth a conversation, ASAP.). Remote work is the wave of the future, and eliminating 4 hour round-trip commutes are one of the many reasons why. Same situation at my last job, too. I actually had a lecture about this in college. I guess the silver lining is that The commute became too much for me seemed to be a commonly-given reason for leaving a position in Los Angeles, so hopefully interviews will accept that without question. I was like we do not have the same idea of what the word traffic means anymore. I feel your pain. When I lived in Chicago, I commuted reverse from just south of downtown to a suburb out by the airport, and it was routinely 2 1/2 hours one way. I had a half hour train ride during which I would chill out / read a book / catch up on the internet because I would always get on the train when there were seats (and I would consider it 15 minutes well spent waiting for the next one if there were no seats). Now I commute 15 minutes to work but its a minimum of 90 minutes to get to a city of any size with anything interesting to do, even with no traffic. In case you do think about moving: The first worst commute is Valley to west side, the second is San Gabriel Valley to Culver City area, and the third worst is south LA/Garden Grove/LB to anywhere north of DTLA, regardless of whether youre going east or west of DTLA. People often get priced out of the living areas close to work. Most of my colleagues travel at least an hour to an hour and a half, and mostly by mass transit. Where I live now? I have a 2 hour commute into Boston; I live in Providence. It may be normal there, but it greatly informed my decision to move elsewhere after I graduated. Feb 7 2021 1 hr 1 min. I am from California and some time ago I decided to move about 30 miles away from work. My spouse and I are in a situation where I have an awesome practically door-to-door public bus commute that takes about 20 minutes, but he drives to work and it takes him 45-60 minutes. My dad did this when he and my mother bought their first house. You forgot all of the American citizens (from all over) with legal licenses who drive like utter shit. I was going to suggest, shorter term, perhaps finding a gym you like close to where you are working, so as to cut down your commute time by either getting there early in the morning OR staying late to let some of the nonsense thin out. Its always a tradeoff because of housing prices near the good job centers. 1000 cars can go 60 mph just as well as 10 cars as long as theyre all going the same speed. I used to do a similar commute. FASCINATING. If it were by bus I might not feel the same way, but Ive never had to deal with that. However, I was shocked to see how awful CA traffic can get. I now commute 25 minutes and its definitely doable, but I plan to move about 10 minutes closer to work as I need to get a new apartment soon anyway. I get defensive about it: I think long commutes being interpreted as the norm give LA a bad name. 2 hour commute twice a week; 2 hour commute twice a week. I remember days it took over an hour of just sitting on Westlake to Mercer to the 5. If theres been a wreck, it could take me 45 minutes to an hour to get home. Only you know what you are able to deal with, and its ok if you dont want to do it. Im in an area with long commutes (top 10 US), but even for here that was double many people (though not as bad as others just not in my workplace). But youll figure it out. TBH I dont think Ive ever worked in the same location as him, actually. Id love to do that walk in the morning, but maybe not so much in the afternoon! i would quit immediately (if moving is not an option). I could sit and read, or knit, or work on my laptop, or talk to my seatmates on the train (I found a group and we sat together every day) and not worry about other drivers and insane traffic. In my lifetime, it may actually make sense to ban humans from driving due to computers driving much more safely and efficiently. I was commuting outward, and as someone new to the area, I foolishly assumed that Id be going opposite of traffic, and that it wouldnt be an issue. I got my commute down to 40 minutes each way, and then realized I would rather pay more for a smaller home than spend a bunch of time commuting from a large house. Thats how I did it. I would have left a merely very good job a couple of years ago. My commute is probably 45 min door to door. OMG. Seriously. It would take maybe 10 minutes longer than by car. I wish you luck adjusting your circumstances to something that works for you! But Ive done the 1.5+ hour commute for years at a time. If the commute turns out to be terrible, look into renting a room at someone's apartment or house (or even in a nearby extended day or hotel, if that's financially feasible). (?). Tracy, Manteca, Stockton, Merced, Sacramento, Vallejo. And its not unusual for our area, but I understand why some folks would try desperately to avoid it. We had a store manager for a while that worked in Irvine and lived in Hemet (because thats the closest he could afford to buy a house), and spent at least six hours per day driving, sometimes more. 2 hours isnt normal, but its not unusual. I was used to doing drop off and pick up from day care and I couldnt do that anymore. Already decided, not worth it! That article *really* misses how inflated housing cost are in some urban centers. I need to take a bus (7 miles) to reach either of those. The New Englanders are so so so jealous of your weather! Im sorry! It always took at least 45-60 minutes. I live six miles from my work, and it takes me fifty-five minutes by public transit (when its working on time, etc) and about an hour and fifteen by car. These days, its about 30 minutes door-to-door in the morning and 45 in the afternoon when I stop off for child pickup. Some (most) days there is still gridlock at 7 pm. Most days, its at least an hour. The idea of driving into the city center or to the other side of the metro area makes me shudder. I barely saw him. Also, it looks like the Blue Line will be temporarily shut down. Right now my commute is 10 minutes, 15 minutes if there is heavy traffic. Do you end up having to leave very early and arrive home at bedtime? Yeah, my husband currently commutes from Arlington to the Laurel/College Park-ish area. The Commute with Carlson. I just cross my finger and hope I dont run into anyone too crazy. I want my time back! Waze does not work. Haha sorry, I meant the personally attacked part as a joke. I also have trouble waking up in the mornings and have a pretty bad sense of how long certain things (showering, making coffee) will take me, so Im not cut out for getting up earlier to avoid traffic. I would also argue its merging/splitting of freeways that brings 8 lanes to 2 for a mile stretch, and the consequent lane changes that can cause accidents. When I moved from the south to the Boston area, I traded a 35 minute driving commute for a 35 minute walking commute (shorter on a bus, but I like the walk whenever it was >15 degrees and not raining). On a bad day 2 hours. OP, Im sorry you are having to experience LA Gridlock at its finest. One accident in the wrong place and its another 2 hours stuck on the bus. In this episode of The Thermo Diet Podcast Jayton Miller sits down with independent researcher, entrepreneur, and fellow metabolism fanatic Gerogi Dinkov. Metrolink was an hour and a half door to door, but at least it was fairly consistent, and I could read/write/zone out so it didnt feel like entirely wasted time. 1) Public transportation: I would drive to a bus stop park-n-ride, then bus in My current commute from the northwest corner of OC to the south Irvine area takes me 45 minutes and I think this is roughly standard for this general area. O_O Now my commute is an easy 15 minutes. Its common for people to have to pull over and knock to offer reimbursement for hitting a chicken/guinea hen/something else. If you do decide to suck it up and live with your commute, start exploring alternate routes. In more rural areas, sure, 50 makes sense but in an urban area like Boston, they should go by travel time, IMHO. I paid out the nose for it in rent, but it was worth it. Isnt the only person to answer this you? 3-4 hours per day in traffic meant I lost 15-20 hours of non-work time each week or a week each month. Many people commute 2hrs+ every day. NYC. That's 2 hours on the bus, 9 hours on Amtrak's Sunset Limited. Double-win! It turned what used to be a 2-hour commute for me to an hours drive. During busier projects, their preference is to be in more regularly. Short commutes on the east coast are for people who can afford to live close to work. But oh man, it was like Saturday traffic in the suburb I live in. I would live here over LA any day of the week. This one doesn't sound like it is. My dad had a 1.5 2 hour commute each way growing up (so, 25 years ago) in socal. I couldnt handle a two hour each way commute for eighteen DAYS, let alone months. I feel that the underlying question the LW is asking and the way Allison responded is saying is this something that the LW has to accept for their personal situation. For more tech tips, news, and updates visit - CraigPeterson.com . A big difference for the NYC person is that So Cal has lots and lots of space to sprawl (so we did pushing living spaces and working spaces further and further apart) and we are car obsessed. I work slightly before rush hour, and love driving as long as theres little to no traffic, so its perfect for me. So we had three phones going all with different routes. I will be living at home. You can either move closer to work, or look for work closer to where you live. Public transportation, except for BART (and even BART), is not fast in the Bay Area. Im sooo looking forward to it. Haha, were not arguing! I worked swing shift, which helped, but I also had a sports car, which I *loved* to drive! Long rural commutes can be hard on your gas budget and wear and tear on your car, though. "It's kind of an adventure to me," says Coughlin . She also needs a supportive boyfriend who will help her problem solve, rather than dismiss her misery with its normal, everyone deals with it, get over it.. I used to have a 1.5 2hr commute (depending on rush hour) from a part of Northern VA into DC, so its definitely not just California. Like the OP, Im a former New Yorker, and my 45-minute subway or bus commute felt like nothing because I didnt have to be so engaged. The Census Bureau published a really interesting working paper on Mega Commuting back in 2013. I dont live in LA, but I visit frequently and have close friends who do live there. ), and I will have some time for me again. Part of the reason for this is that DC obviously has a lot of federal employees, but rent in the district (and even just outside of it!) 30 miles seems like a long commute distance-wise for the LA area, but 2 hours is what I would expect that to take during rush hour. CanadaTech19 4 yr. ago He liked the job okay, but he ended up leaving just because he couldnt deal with the commute. *scratching LA off the list of cities I could move to*. Her fiance had a 10-minute one because he taught at the neighborhood school. Of course she needs facts. My sister in laws father lives in Calabasas and thats his typical commute. My times are similar maybe a little shorter in the PM coming from near the 101/92 interchange. No way does bushwick to soho happen in 45 minutes. My commute is 1 hr and 45 minutes door to door, assuming no train delays. Ancestry DNA - Am I being stupidly paranoid? Sitting in a car for 2 hours and driving 15 miles per hour for 2 hours are totally different things. 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